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With a clean, sleek design and a promise to find singles in your area, AskMe4Date seems like the perfect package.

It's free to join and has an active user base throughout the day. In this review, we'll go through all the best and worst features you can expect using this dating site.

5 Reasons to try

Quick registration

The website has a simple, easy-to-use design

Cheaper premium membership than rival sites

Fill in your dating profile whenever you want to

A large number of people online throughout the day

AskMe4Date Members

This dating site is ideal for both men and women looking for relationships. Whilst ages vary, the majority of members are aged between 25-35 years of age and are heterosexual.

Some of the profiles on the site only have one photograph or are partially incomplete. That said, many members will respond to messages and likes.

You can search through members by sorting them by age, distance, or using the search feature, including by body type, ethnicity, and more.

Signup and Profile Creation

Creating a profile on this dating site is very easy. All you need to do is answer 4 simple questions and verify your email address to get setup.

Whilst you can fill in your profile in your own time, it's recommended you upload a profile picture and fill in your information. This helps increase your visibility and rank higher in searches.

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How does this dating site work?

Primarily, AskMe4Date shows you singles in your area based on your location. Profiles higher up on your grid are closer. You can use the search filters to narrow this list.

You can contact profiles in 3 different ways. First, you can send a message to them with the 'Chat' button. You can also 'Like' their profile or send them a 'flirtcast', a flirty ice-breaker message that sends to several profiles simultaneously.

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There are no personality or interest questions on this dating site. Matching happens when you like a profile, and they like you back.

You can find out more about a member-only by reading their profile and asking them questions. There is an option on every profile to 'Ask to add' for additional information. But primarily, the site uses location to find potential dates.

App Review

AskMe4Date has an app that functions exactly like the website. You can search, send messages and check your inbox with just a click of a button. The app is not entirely necessary, however, given the website is optimized across all mobile devices.

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Free Vs. Paid Features
Free Features:

Create a profile and fill in your bio/interests

Update status messages

Sending 'flirtcast' messages to members

Send 5 daily messages to members

Like/favorite profiles

Match with profiles in the 'Like Gallery'

Get notified when someone views your profile

Free Features:

Unlimited messaging

View full images and share photos and videos in chat

Extended search results

Premium support

View 'looking for information on profiles

No waiting time to read messages

Price Plans

There are 4 different plans you can choose from. These prices are some of the cheapest we've found on dating sites. They include:


1 Day

$0.99 /day

1 Week

$0.86 /day

1 Month

$0.83 /day

3 Months

$0.46 /day

Do note that your payment will be shown on your card statement as Advantages

Many users online throughout the day

Members are looking for long-term romance and in-person meetups

Quick registration

Fill your profile in at your convenience

One of the cheapest membership price plans Disadvantages

Difficult to use without a paid membership

You must wait a long time to unlock messages on a free membership

No identity verification beyond an email address

Some profiles are incomplete Testimonials
Rachel O'Connor, 26

"The truth is in the name - AskMe4Date has helped me chat and meet with single men close by. It's given me a lot of confidence."

James Murphy, 30

"AskMe4Date is one of the best chat sites. Once I upgraded my account, I could see messages in real-time, talk to lots more girls, and send photos in private."

Karen Moore, 34

"My advice for people using AskMe4Date is to upload a picture and fill in your profile. It helped me connect with men in my town."

Expert Conclusion

With a simple and clean design, it's easy to get set up on AskMe4Date. However, several blank and incomplete profiles and a lack of personality matchmaking leads us to believe that finding a date might be very difficult.

As the site sorts profiles in order of location, some cities and towns may be busier than others. For the best experience, it's recommended you upgrade your membership – thankfully, the site does have some of the cheapest membership plans found online

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Is AskMe4Date Free for women?

There are no free memberships for women on this site. Everyone is charged the same price. That said, it does have one of the lowest premium plans.

How many messages can I send?

You can send 5 daily messages on a free account. Upgrading allows for unlimited messaging across the dating site

Is my information private?

We've reviewed this site's privacy policy, and there are some concerns to be mindful of. Information you upload about yourself on this dating site may be used for both advertising and marketing purposes.

AskMe4Date is part of a network of dating sites, and so your profile may be duplicated onto the network to maximize your chances of a match.

Even on a free account, you will be notified whenever someone views your profile. Members will be notified whenever you view their profile.

How safe is

Given the number of blank profiles, it's always important to exercise caution on AskMe4Date. You can report and block profiles you think are suspicious, malicious, or misleading.

AskMe4Date has a list of important dating tips and advice, including sharing information on a case by case basis and protecting your personal information.